I’ve just realized that Nancy Drew was my hero in grade school! (Psycho-archaeology report 6-23-2012)
~ I was just ‘watching’ (using for audio wallpaper is more like it) Geoffrey Baer touring the Chain o’ Lakes (intriguing former playground of the rich, famous, “connected” and corrupt, NW of Chicago) in this mahogany runabout:
My first bubble-up memory was “Ooh yeah! I always wanted one of those, ’cause Nancy Drew looked so spiff on her book covers when I was a kid!” ~ and that reminded me of how much I wanted to be her, because:
- she had good, close friends (who would help her (un-)bury the bodies)
- … and scads of good acquaintances (“weak connections” – I read a really good comments-conversation recently re: choosing a church community primarily for the social benefit of the kids… can’t find it now, though)
- she (and her family) had plenty of cash / ready funding for any adventure (though money was never discussed, it was also never an issue)
- she always dressed
impeccablyfashionably – impeccably, too, come to think of it
- she clearly lived several-many rungs higher on the socio-economic (read: class) ladder than I did. (Most of the folks I knew even vaguely, and all of Daddy’s relatives, certainly did. And after-the-inheritances, I’ve found that my Mom’s siblings had the money, too, although it didn’t “show” the same way…)
((How did B and I miss getting that? Not the money per se, but the money-know-how. I don’t even know if B really missed it, or if I was the only one who was “somewhere else” when they gave that lecture — that education on how to marshal one’s resources and accumulate ‘wealth’ so as not to be desperately living from paycheck to paycheck? ))
- her sleuthy thinking surely informed my “find the obscure connections – look for the work-arounds” inclinations. I wonder which is ‘chicken’ and which is ‘egg’??
- she had easy access to nifty toys: that mahogany speedboat, her baby blue roadster, the vacation cottage, the horses…
- she always ‘won’… she was ultimately ‘right’ – ’cause they always nailed the bad guys, yaknow! (Since she’s a Fictional Heroine, “Of course!” and even “Duh!!” would be an appropriate reaction, here. )
This is all based on my memories, mind you – I haven’t read (or read about) Nancy Drew books since 8th grade.
I’m pretty satisfied with what I believe I learned from ND ~ not so sure about some of the expectations I built about myself and how my life *should* be ~
Clearly, more psycho-archaeology is called for…
Who were your role-models when you were growing up? Are you still happy with the things you learned from them? Do you recognize where your self-expectations came from?